The holidays are meant to be a season of joy — of family, tradition, and making memories that last. The most wonderful time of the year. But for parents who share custody or parenting time, this time of year can also bring added stress, scheduling conflicts, and emotional tension. This is especially true if it’s your first holiday season as divorced co-parents with young kids.
At Plakas Mannos, we understand that co-parenting during the holidays isn’t always easy. You want to make the season special for your children while balancing logistics, expectations, and sometimes strained relationships. Whether your parenting plan has been in place for years or you’re newly separated, clear expectations and boundaries can go a long way in keeping the holidays peaceful for everyone involved.
Here are some practical co-parenting tips for navigating shared parenting during the holidays from our experienced family law attorneys.
Holiday plans can fill up a co-parenting calendar quickly, and misunderstandings can turn into disputes fast. Review your shared parenting agreement well before the holidays and confirm dates, times, and transportation details in writing. If something unexpected comes up — like travel plans or family gatherings — consider compromise where possible.
During the holiday season, so many things compete for our time and attention. There are only so many days in December, and no one can do everything. If you can’t accommodate a requested schedule change, you don’t have to. It’s important to protect your boundaries and your peace, especially during this busy and oftentimes emotional time of year.
No holiday season goes perfectly, even in the best of times. Plans may change, weather might interfere, or emotions might run high. Try to focus on what you can control. A calm and cooperative approach helps everyone, especially your children, feel more at ease.
If this is your first year co-parenting during the holidays, it may feel bittersweet. But new traditions can help you and your kids move forward. Whether it’s baking cookies on a different night, doing a “second Christmas” when the kids return on December 26th, or starting a holiday movie marathon. Your children will remember how they felt during these holidays far more than which date was on the calendar the day they opened their presents.
Sometimes, despite your best efforts, communication breaks down or one parent refuses to follow the parenting plan. If that happens, know that you don’t have to face it alone — even during the holidays. A family law attorney can help clarify your rights, enforce existing orders, or seek modifications when circumstances change. Acting early can prevent a small conflict from becoming a larger one.
While no one wants to involve lawyers, especially this time of year, there are times when it’s necessary — especially if:
At Plakas Mannos, our team of experienced family law attorneys understands the emotional complexity of co-parenting disputes — especially around the holidays. We help families protect what matters most: their children and their peace of mind.
The holidays are meant to bring joy — not conflict. With preparation, empathy, and the right support, you can make this season meaningful for your children and yourself.
If you’re struggling with a shared parenting arrangement or facing a joint custody issue this holiday season, call Plakas Mannos today. Our experienced family law attorneys are here to listen, guide you through your options, and help you chart a path forward. Let us help you protect your family’s future and find peace this holiday season.